Radio 4 programme explores HIV in women over 50

The increase in HIV amongst women was explored in women over 50 on Radio 4′s Women’s Hour last Monday.

The programme highlighted some big and important issues, such as lack familiarity with symptoms, not knowing you’ve been infected by a partner or former partner (and struggling with the consequental sense of betrayal), and financial security.

The number of women over 50 with HIV is increasing, and the health and financial implications are significant and a concern in many countries.

It’s very worthwhile taking time to listen to the programme which makes an interesting and moving discussion. As well, it prompts people – either female or male – to seriously consider seeing a financial planner to review budgets and pensiion provisions.

The programme can be found here: http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b00vkpk8.

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Darren (not his real name) went on the volunteer project a few years ago. It was designed to help and support people with HIV.

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She said that she dated a guy in the village but as soon as she told him she had herpes, he not only broke up with her but gossiped about her in the village pub.

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I received a great email a few weeks back from a guy who joined the www.datepositive.net after it launched in 2006.

He met a woman on the website and they are now happily married. They were one of the first few members to join. It was great to hear from him and hear such a happy story.

It’s been challenging building and running a business, but receiving that email made us all really happy and realise again that this venture is so worthwhile. Continue reading