There is more than one approach to writing a profile headline.
Your headline could describe what you are looking for. Here are a couple of good examples:
Seeking walks, talks and hugs – a straight headline but it tells the reader a lot what the member seeks in a partner.
Looking for an upbeat, positive, friendly person – once again a straight headline and very specific in terms of what’s being sought.
Seeking soul mate – a lot of people don’t like this headline but I honestly think it’s okay, if that’s what you’re actually looking for. However, if you use this headline be sure to be interesting and detailed in your actual profile. In other words, tell the reader what you think your soul mate will be like.
Looking for gentle giant/Looking for sassy girl – again, pretty clear in terms of what the member wants.
Use a headline to make a statement or request. This kind of headline is in a sense a combination headline. It says something about you and also describes what you are looking for. Here are a few of examples:
The world is my oyster – this person sounds like an explorer and ready to explore.
Let’s plunder the pot of gold – someone who is ready for adventure and who wants to share the great things life has to offer with a close companion.
Let’s get our boots muddy together – this person wants to wander off the beaten track in life and experience the wild and unusual.
Ask a question. A question headline creates curiosity and a bit of intrigue about your profile and who you are.
What’s the worst that could happen? – this restores the light-heartedness to dating that is so often missing because it can be loaded with expectations. At worst you could have a boring hour with someone not your type. At best you could meet the love of your life!
Can you restore my belly laugh? – here’s someone who definitely connects on the basis of humour. If you strike a cord with each other it could be great.
Fancy a film? – at first it sounds too basic but it’s good because that’s how great dates start, a shared enjoyment of something you both like.
Use humour or your favourite quote. I’ve said this before, you’ve got to be careful with humour because if it goes wrong it can go badly wrong. So play it safe and if you’re not sure, don’t use it.
However, here are some good examples to spur your creative juices:
Profile under construction – funny because it plays on the early days of the Internet when websites were never quite ready. Maybe this is a person in flux. Check out their profile again for new info.
Some like it hot – the title of one of Marilyn’s classics. Intriguing and inviting.
Can I borrow a bowl of sugar? – and why not?! You never know what might happen with the profile next door.
I wandered lonely as a cloud – lovely and romantic from the William Wordsworth poem, slightly sad too.
Dolce vita – the sweet life and someone’s looking to share it.
Only love interests me, and I am only in contact with things I love – a quote from the artist Marc Chagall, quite deep too. Whoever uses this line is pretty serious about love!
I hope these ideas help. Forget the headlines like Hello, or I’m John. Worst of all don’t leave the headline space blank, or fill it with a series of random characters. It just tells readers you can’t really be bothered. No-one stops to read a profile with an empty headline slot or a repeated run of keyboard characters.
Use a bit of imagination. Practice for an hour or so, and pick what you believe is the best. You’ll have something that really does grab the attention of the people you hope to meet, and that’s the first step in getting them to read your profile.